The costs of making any decision on the basis of who has the strongest will are very high, especially as the loser can feel resentful and bitter. If the committee members agree that decisions are made by taking the most votes, then move on whether you 'win' or 'lose'. Reflect and learn from your actions and consider alternative ways you may have been able to present your points or arguments for a successful outcome.

Ensure everyone is committed to the outcome

Once you and the other committee members have reached a decision, make sure everyone knows:

• what is going to happen next
• who is going to do what, and by when
• what resources are available
• what would be the consequences for not following through on agreements or tasks.